Relocating Spouse Moving With Children

The Relocating Spouse There are many issues which can affect a relocating spouse: job hunting, leaving family and friends, getting the kids in school, etc. If you are moving with your spouse or significant other, we encourage you to request the booklet, "Tips For Every Relocating Spouse" from your Customer Service Coordinator. It is free of charge, and provides a wealth of information on this topic. Moving With Children The following tips often help children adjust before, during and after a family relocates. If you would like more information about moving with your children you may request the booklet "Kids on the Move" by Nancy Ervin from your Graebel Customer Service Coordinator. Or, for smaller children, ask for Graebel's special coloring book. Include the child(ren) in planning the move, i.e. take them house-hunting with you Help your child(ren) learn about the new area Through play-acting with dolls, boxes and a wagon, children can get a feeling of "moving" Let the children help decide how their new rooms are to be arranged and decorated Encourage children to exchange addresses and phone numbers with their friends Prepare a package for each child containing snacks, some clothing, and a few favorite toys for the move Take a "family break" as soon as the major unpacking is done. Don't try to do everything when you arrive Parents should spend time after the move listening to each child about new schools and new friends. Follow progress in new schools. Accompanying your child(ren) to school the first few days may ease tension Any lingering abnormalities (loss of appetite, insomnia, constipation, diarrhea, menstrual disorder) should be reported to a doctor If your move involves suburban to rural, or vice versa, caution children about new situations they will face Back to top